Wednesday, October 13, 2010
What is Personal Branding?
Team Building For Success
Ways on How to Balance Your Mind, Body and Spirit
Ways to Overcome Panic Attacks
Friday, September 10, 2010
Dealing With Negative Behavior
By Tammy AS Kohl
Emotions play an important role in everyday behavior. There is no thought, behavior, idea, or attitude that does not have a related emotional counterpart. Often times in the business arena, various forms of emotions are frowned upon. But, the reality is emotions do exist and do impact communications no matter how subtle. As often as it is said emotions do not belong in business, they will always be there. The intent of this information is to alert you to the importance emotions play in our everyday lives, and how a successful leader can create a productive and focused working climate while dealing with the reality of emotions.
As you interact with your staff or team, you begin to build up certain expectations of each other’s behaviors and reactions. In any relationship between two people who have been in continuous interaction over a period of time, certain tolerable limits of emotional communication are established. There are certain ways of saying things which must be slightly altered to fit varying situations. For example, you may not talk to your children the same way you talk to your partner; you may not talk to your superior in the same way that you talk to a team member, and so forth. In some instances, these behavioral responses are simply a matter of courtesy and respect for the other person. In some cases, they stem from a fear of undesirable results.
Constantly avoiding dealing with your feelings can build up a stockpile of pent-up emotions. It can create a festering problem which when it does find expression, exhibits itself in ways that are harmful, hurtful, and destructive to a relationship. This repression and lack of adequate expression is not limited only to negative emotions such as anger but also applies to positive emotions such as love. We must develop a way to widen the tolerable limits of emotional expression, so that the problems associated with restraint and repression are diminished. By understanding human behavior, you will be able to identify emotionally based problems which emerge in the everyday operations of the organization. Effective management demands that you deal with emotions on a rational basis.
The key to managing emotions within your team is the environment. The culture that you create and maintain provides the platform for how you and your team deal with situations when
they arise. Throughout most of our lives, we have developed ways to express disappointment, anger, and discontent in somewhat less than honest terms. We have learned, through experience and conditioning, that exhibiting hostility can prove ineffective in solving our problems with others. Instead of confronting situations head on we circumnavigate the stormy waters by using what we have come to believe are more socially acceptable forms of expression. This can be very functional behavior, up to a point, since a continuously abrasive and complaining individual soon finds no one around with whom to become hostile. On the other hand various negative feelings need expression as well. Emotions, if left unexpressed, or if expressed irrationally inhibit progress in improving relationships. Honest, open communication is necessary for a results-oriented working environment. To do so, you must create trust, concern, and a mutual commitment with your people. Some additional ideas when implemented correctly will help create a productive culture.
Create a culture that encourages your staff members to come directly to you and discuss, share, or brainstorm a situation with which they may be dealing. Whether they need an avenue for emotional expression or they are on the receiving end of a distracting situation and want to brainstorm possible solutions, make yourself available.
About the Author:
Tammy A.S. Kohl is President of Resource Associates Corporation. For over 30 years, RAC has specialized in helping businesses and individuals achieve high levels of excellence and success. Learn how at http://www.resourceassociatescorp.com or contact RAC directly at 800.799.6227.
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Thursday, July 15, 2010
Tips for the Heartbroken – How to Get Your Life Back Together?
By Felix Lehmann
Are you heartbroken by the loss of a love affair that you thought would last forever? No matter what others tell you at this time, you feel that you will never be able to recover from this jolt. Heartbreak can be very debilitating, and people who have just suffered a brutal end to a relationship can actually feel physically ill for a long time. Depression can have very physical manifestations such as pain in the chest, digestive problems leading to stomach aches, and insomnia.
You will get over being heartbroken eventually, but how long are you willing to wait for this to happen? If the process of getting over heartbreak takes too long, it can have a very negative effect on your life. You therefore have to get your life back together at the very earliest so that you can be ready to face the next challenge. There is more to getting over depression than just waiting for time to heal all wounds, and there are specific steps that you can follow to repair your broken heart.
At the very outset, you have to see things from a larger perspective. You have to understand that this is just one part of your life and that this is only a temporary phase, no matter how bad it seems right now. You should also allow yourself the luxury of grieving over the lost relationship because this will enable you to go beyond it. If this involves wallowing in misery listening to only romantic music while you weep copious tears, then so be it. You will emerge from it feeling much better since you would have released a lot of pent up emotions. It is most unhealthy to suppress these emotions and if you do so, they will be manifested in physical symptoms and ailments.
Your friends can play an important role when you are heartbroken. They should give to the time to grieve while they prevent you from doing things that are harmful to you. Many people resort to the artificial crutches of alcohol and drugs when they are heartbroken and this can leave them with lifelong addictions and a bigger problem than they had before.
This is also the time that you might feel tempted to take the help of ice creams and chocolate and this can cause you to put on lots of weight. Apart from being bad for your health, this can effectively reduce your chances of forming another relationship easily.
Your friends will also help you understand what went wrong with the relationship that caused it to break. Hopefully, this should help you avoid making the same mistakes in the future. There is
no use in blaming yourself for what happened. Instead, you should try to see what you can do to save yourself from being heartbroken ever again in your life.
You deserve to have a happy life and if you follow these pointers you will emerge from this phase of your life as a much stronger person.
About the Author: I am basically a graduate at the University of Hamburg and I work at http://www.layoutsparks.com
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Tuesday, April 20, 2010
3 Simple Ways To Overcome Fear.
Author: Paul Beer
Fear is your enemy – no other way to describe it. It can take the very starch from you and reduce your life to an experience of mediocrity at best. I’m not talking about that natural life preserving action along with a major boost of adrenalin that happens if a wild animal is coming at you. I’m talking about the fears people live with day in and day out. Fear is your enemy. Someone once described fear as, “Sand in the machinery of life.” Fear doesn’t help you, it hinders you. Fear doesn’t get you through an open door; it keeps you in the hallway. Fear never helps you put your best foot forward; it just keeps both of your feet in cement.
The psychology of today is, “Learn to live with your fears”, “Embrace your fears”, “It’s normal to have fears – everybody does.”
It’s true; lots of people do have fears. And there are people who are trying to learn how to live with their fears, and embrace them.
But if it’s “normal” to have fears, then why would the Bible talk about being delivered from all your fears?
Think about it - if it’s normal to have fears, and you had no fears, then you would be abnormal, right? Well why would God want you to be abnormal?
He doesn’t. He truly desires for you to be set free from all your fears.
There are many facets and aspects of fear. One of the big ones is having fear of what others think of you. People do things, say things, and even buy things because of the fear that they have of what others think.
Many times people join clubs or organizations because they are afraid that if they don’t, others might think badly of them.
People say things and talk a certain way because they are afraid that they might not say the right thing in front of the right people.
People purchase items because of fear of not measuring up to those around them. And on and on it goes.
You don’t have to live with fear. Here are 3 simple keys to getting rid of fear.
First, start by realizing that God truly loves you and that His love for you is unconditional. The Bible teaches that nothing can separate you from His love. Nothing. His love for you does not change, ever!
Second, ask God to help you to get rid of all your fears. He has promised to deliver you from all your fears. That is His desire for you – a life without fear.
Third, make decisions based on what is best for you, not how it may or may not appear to others. You’ll never, ever be able to please everyone, so stop trying to. You’ll never, ever be right in everybody’s eyes, so stop trying to.
When you make a decision, ask yourself, “Why am I making this decision? Is it based on fear?” Make decisions based on what is right and best for your life, regardless of what others think.
You can live without fear.
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Monday, April 5, 2010
Your Mind is Your Source of Power
Your mind has the fantastic ability to transform you most intimate desires and wants into their physical counterparts and create brand new realities of your current life. It is an amazing wonder what you mind can conceive of and then using your belief and will power to actually implement.
Are you skeptical? You should be because that also is an important part of your mind. It's the part that relates information to your current reality to determine what to believe and what not to believe. The problem with this mechanism is that it often gets in the way of itself and doesn't allow you to utilize your mind to its fullest.
For example, cancer patients who were given placebo pills (Placebos are often associated with sugar pills that have no medicine) as part of their treatment were able to get well without real medical treatment.
So how did these cancer patients get well?
The power to heal themselves came from their thoughts because they were told that the placebos contained the highest amounts of cancer-fighting medicine available which could cure them in a couple of days.
The cancer patients believed that their medicine would restore their health. Their minds turned their belief into a reality and cured them of their illnesses.
Isn't it amazing how powerful your mind is?
Of course, if your mind can cure cancer patients then all of your dreams should be achievable if you only "set your mind to it."
One of the most effective ways to use your mind for dream realization is to use the "as if" principle.
Using the "as if" principle, you act as if you are the person you want to be. Act as though the things that you want to possess are already in your possession.
This isn't necessarily a literal possession that we are talking about but often a figurative possession.
What do you want to be? Do you want to be a doctor, lawyer, newscaster, Olympic athlete? Think, act, and feel like one. By "being" your goal, you'll be much closer to your goal because you are constantly in touch with your final objective. Be obsessed with your dream! You can be everything that you want to be.
For this to be effective, you can't just act like you are what you want to be. You have to actually take ACTION. Don't get so lost in this new reality that you forget to take action, because without action your new reality will remain a fantasy. Do what needs to be done and do it today! Let your dreams motivate you to actualize your purpose in your existing reality not just in your head.
There was a weightlifter who was stuck on 300lbs. No matter what he did he couldn't figure out a way to lift more. So, one day his lifting coach decided to trick the lifter. He told the lifter that the bar only had 300 lbs on it. The weightlifter went to the bar and lifted the 300lbs as he had done every day prior. After the successful lift the coach told him that he had just lifted 350 lbs!
It's often true we can do what we think we can't, if we change what's in our heads. There's an old saying: "Fortune favors the prepared mind." It's all in the mind!
In today's world, we're far too preoccupied with our worries, anxieties, and negative emotions. All of that baggage has adversely affected the state of our health, creating stress-induced conditions and diseases.
A famous person once said, "Whenever you think you can or you can't, you're right."
If you think that you are not rich, then you are not. You must recondition your thoughts and beliefs to be positive rather than negative. Many times it is hard to think rich if everything around you truly is poor but that when visualization with a bit of imagination are required.
Visualize your house/apartment to be a mansion, your old car to be new fancy sports car (no speeding), and everything else around you to be exceptional. Use your mind to expand the possibilities of your life into a new reality.
There is no limit to what your mind can achieve by combining belief, will power, and action with positive thinking and a positive mindset in order to arrive at your dream destination.
About Author: Anthony Stai is a proud contributing author and writes articles on several self-improvement related topics including positive thinking. You can see more of Anthony's articles on his Self-Improvement Resources informational web site located at http://www.self-improvementresources.com
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Tips to Teaching Youth Life Skills
1) Financial literacy. Ensuring your children or students receive practical financial literacy training can improve all areas of their lives. Studies show that people that have developed financial literacy skills are healthier, have better relationships, have a higher self esteem and are less stressed. Financial literacy training is the foundation which all the other youth life skills can build on and support.