Thursday, July 15, 2010

How to Know If Your Ex Still Loves You?

By Anthony Malibu

Do romantic feelings really go away after a relationship ends, or do they linger on? And if so, how long do they last?

If you're broken up and currently trying to get your boyfriend or girlfriend back, you'll need to know the signals given off when your ex still loves you. Recognizing signs that your ex still has feelings is an important aspect of knowing exactly when to take action.

Is your ex sending you mixed signals? This happens a lot more often than you'd think. In most cases, your ex is confused about what he or she wants to do. In these moments, they might be lonely. They're allowing their heart to rule their head. They're remembering your old relationship, and allowing their emotions to control their actions.

This is a great window of opportunity if you want to date your ex again. You always want to take action when your ex is at his or her emotionally weakest. On the flip side, you never want to
take a step forward in your ex's direction when they're not missing or thinking about you. Knowing the difference is crucial, and it determines whether you'll succeed or fail in getting closer to reconciliation.

In short, there's a simple reason your ex still thinks about you: emotional bonds don't go away overnight. Just because your ex boyfriend or girlfriend broke up with you, it not like they can turn off their feelings by snapping their fingers. All emotional wounds take time to heal, and all relationships take time to fade from memory.

So how can you tell if your ex is still in love with you? What are the signs? The most major indications that your exboyfriend or exgirlfriend may still have feelings for you can be found below:

* Your Ex Stays In Touch With You After The Break Up

* "Innocently" Keeping Tabs on You Through Friends and Family

* Your Ex Suggests That The Two of You Should Remain Friends

* Your Boyfriend or Girlfriend Shows Up Places He or She Knows You'll Be

* Post-Breakup Emails, Text-Messages, or Facebook/MySpace Interaction

* Late Night Phone Calls, Including Drunk-Dialing

In short, any contact at all is a definite sign of interest on your ex's part. In learning how to know if your ex still loves you, all of the above behaviors can be attributed to the fact that your boyfriend or girlfriend is just not yet ready to let the relationship go... not completely, at any rate. Your ex is looking to keep you around, acting as a sort of safety net, just in case they want to reverse their decision to break up with you.

To get your ex back at this point, you MUST be proactive. You can't just sit back and hope things work out for the best. By identifying the signs and signals that your ex still wants you, you can pinpoint the most opportunistic time period for you to take action.

The only question then becomes this: exactly WHAT action should you take?

About the Author: There are 8 Individual Steps that will help Get Back Your Ex Girlfriend: Or in the case of an ex boyfriend, check out Winning Your Boyfriend Back!



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