By Felix Lehmann
Are you heartbroken by the loss of a love affair that you thought would last forever? No matter what others tell you at this time, you feel that you will never be able to recover from this jolt. Heartbreak can be very debilitating, and people who have just suffered a brutal end to a relationship can actually feel physically ill for a long time. Depression can have very physical manifestations such as pain in the chest, digestive problems leading to stomach aches, and insomnia.
You will get over being heartbroken eventually, but how long are you willing to wait for this to happen? If the process of getting over heartbreak takes too long, it can have a very negative effect on your life. You therefore have to get your life back together at the very earliest so that you can be ready to face the next challenge. There is more to getting over depression than just waiting for time to heal all wounds, and there are specific steps that you can follow to repair your broken heart.
At the very outset, you have to see things from a larger perspective. You have to understand that this is just one part of your life and that this is only a temporary phase, no matter how bad it seems right now. You should also allow yourself the luxury of grieving over the lost relationship because this will enable you to go beyond it. If this involves wallowing in misery listening to only romantic music while you weep copious tears, then so be it. You will emerge from it feeling much better since you would have released a lot of pent up emotions. It is most unhealthy to suppress these emotions and if you do so, they will be manifested in physical symptoms and ailments.
Your friends can play an important role when you are heartbroken. They should give to the time to grieve while they prevent you from doing things that are harmful to you. Many people resort to the artificial crutches of alcohol and drugs when they are heartbroken and this can leave them with lifelong addictions and a bigger problem than they had before.
This is also the time that you might feel tempted to take the help of ice creams and chocolate and this can cause you to put on lots of weight. Apart from being bad for your health, this can effectively reduce your chances of forming another relationship easily.
Your friends will also help you understand what went wrong with the relationship that caused it to break. Hopefully, this should help you avoid making the same mistakes in the future. There is
no use in blaming yourself for what happened. Instead, you should try to see what you can do to save yourself from being heartbroken ever again in your life.
You deserve to have a happy life and if you follow these pointers you will emerge from this phase of your life as a much stronger person.
About the Author: I am basically a graduate at the University of Hamburg and I work at http://www.layoutsparks.com