If you have recently been dumped by your ex and wish to get back with them or you are currently on the verge of breakup, it is very important that you do no make mistakes which will sabotage your chances of getting back with the other person. In this "how to save a bad relationship" guide, i will reveal 3 very crucial rules that you must adhere to at all costs if you want to get back with your ex because it will play a very important part in the reconciliation stage. So here are the 3 ground rules that must be adhered to at all costs:-
1) Stay strong. I know that once you break up, there is a tendency to feel that all hope is lost. However I want you to know that all is not lost. This is the time to be strong as you will use attraction as a tool to get back with your ex. Think about it, did your ex wanted to be with you in the first place because you were needy, pitiful and always crying? Chances are its probably not. There is something in you that attracts your ex and that was why you two got together in the first place. Now you really have to think, what was it that made the other person attracted to you. Is it your smile? Your independent nature? Once you have figured out what was it that sparked the fire between you two initially, you will have to work on it instead of crying your eyes out.
2) Limit contact. As weird as it is to many of you out there, it is absolutely a must to limit contact if you wish to know how to save a bad relationship. Why? Because every time your ex sees you, he/she views it as annoying. Whenever you try to meet up or call them, they will shun away and try to avoid you like the plague. When you are doing this, you are literally "pushing" them and when you are pushing, they are pulling. So in order for you to have a chance to get back with them, you have to stop pushing!
3) Get busy. Find a hobby, a sport, go out on dates, do as many thing as you can to occupy yourself. The reason is because when you are alone, and with nothing to distract you from, your mind will constantly wander itself to thoughts of your break up with your ex. This is the killer for most people. Statistics have shown that people who are actively seeking new things to do and people to meet, get over their break up quickly and have more chance of getting back with their ex.
Follow these 3 rules and adhere to it and you will see that your progress in getting your ex back will be much achievable. If you have been following these rules for about a month, there is a high chance that your ex will call you soon and you can expect that they will want to get back with you again. I hope this "how to save a bad relationship" guide has helped you.
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